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Earlier this week I talked about selah, a pause to reflect. There are several ways you can apply this to sex.
Start Slow
We guys are usually ready and champing at the bit. Aside from the fact our wives aren’t like this, it can make it seem like all we care about is getting to orgasm. Take a moment to lay together. Reflect on your love.
End Well
Afterglow can be amazing. Even if it does nothing for you, it will bless her. Fight the urge to fall asleep right away. You can give her ten minutes, can’t you?
Build the Tension
I know the last thing you want to do is take a pause once you get going. But if you do it right, it could result in better sex and more enjoyable orgasms for both of you. The trick here is learning when a pause works for her, and when it doesn’t. And women vary on this. Some can’t do it, a pause will derail them. Some will benefit from a pause early on, but not later. And some will have far better orgasms if you pause right before she comes.
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